What does it mean to love God? In today’s world, where there are many voices calling for your attention, some would say their way of loving God is “the” way of loving God. Others might say that loving God is relative and depends upon your situation and circumstance. One thing we do know is: to love God is to give your total allegiance to God’s love and to allow that love to shape the way you live.
Read Matthew 22:34-40
34 When the Pharisees heard that he had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together, 35 and one of them, an expert in the law, asked him a question to test him. 36 “Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?” 37 He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the greatest and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
Reflect on Matthew 22:34-40
When Jesus was asked which commandment was the greatest, his answer brought the meaning and purpose of faith clearly into focus: love God completely and love your neighbor as yourself.
In this blog, I want to explore what it means to love God. We will explore loving neighbor in the next blog.
When Jesus says, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind,” he is talking about a total, all in, commitment to God’s way. It is essentially becoming who God created you to be.
To go deeper. Loving God is not a matter of what you say, it is a matter of what you allow God’s love to do in your life.
It means loving others even when it is difficult, trusting when life is painful and confusing, and allowing truth to shape the way you think about and interact with the people you encounter each day.
To love God with all your heart, soul, and mind is to allow God’s love to become stronger in you than the hatred, fear, or pain around you.
To love God is not simply about following rules. It is about becoming a person whose life is shaped by love.
So, the greatest commandment, to love God, is more than what you believe. It is about how love makes you and shapes you into who God created you to be.
For John Wesley, this scripture gives a foundation to his emphasis upon holiness of heart and life. loving God and loving neighbor are not separate goals, but the two dimensions of your life being transformed by God.
Respond
Little Suzy girl asked her father, “Daddy, what does it mean to love God?”
Her father thought for a moment and said, “It means that God is the most important person in your life.”
She nodded, but she still did not understand. So, she asked, “Does that mean I have to think about God all the time?”
Her father smiled. “No. But, let me tell you a story.”
There once was a young man named Tommy. He had grown up in a small town where most things were peaceful, but there were times people would have small disagreements. Tommy’s dad was one person in town who tried to be a peacemaker. That was one of the many reasons Tommy loved his dad.
Even though he was an adult and out on his own, Tommy liked sitting with his mom and dad in worship. He loved his parents and especially liked the conversations they had after worship. He called those conversations ‘having the preacher for lunch.” One of their conversations was about what it meant to love God.
One Sunday, when Tommy arrived at the church to worship, his dad was not there. He asked his mother, “Where’s Dad?”
She responded, “He’s at home. He said he had several things on his mind.”
After worship, Tommy stopped by to visit. He found his dad sitting in his favorite chair by the window.
“Dad, are you okay? Mom said you had several things on your mind.”
His father looked out the window and said, “I’ve been thinking about something, Son.”
“What?”
“Your mother and I have been married for forty years. I love her more today than I did when we were young.”
Tommy smiled. “That’s nice, Dad.”
His father continued, “But I don’t spend every minute telling her I love her. I don’t have to. I know her. I trust her. I try to do what makes her happy. And when I make a mistake, I ask her to forgive me.” He paused and then said, “That’s what loving God is like.”
Tommy sat quietly.
His father said, “You love God by getting to know God. You love God by trusting God. You love God by trying to do what God asks. And when you fail, you come back and ask God to forgive you.” Then he added, “And if you really love God, you will begin to love the people God loves.”
Tommy looked at his father. “Even the difficult people?”
His father smiled. “Especially the difficult people.”
Suzy’s father concluded his story by saying, “To love God is to make God the most important person in your life. You love God by trusting God’s love for you and for others. You love God by loving the people God loves.”
Suzy said, “So, loving God means more than thinking about God but loving the way God loves.”
Her father replied, “Now you know what it means to love God.”
Loving God is not simply about saying the right words or attending the right worship services. It is about a relationship that changes the way you live and how you relate to the people around you.
When you love God, you begin to trust God, obey God, seek God’s presence, and love the people God has placed around you.
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.” Matthew 22:37). And Jesus immediately added: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:39).
Your love for God is revealed in the way you love others. I’ll explore loving your neighbor in the next blog.
Return
Give thanks for the people you encountered today. In what ways did you love God? How did you work for the good of the people around you? How did you let people love you? With whom do you need to celebrate God’s love and the ways you have been able to love God and love your neighbor? What will you do differently tomorrow?
