The Courage of Joseph
It is the first week of Advent.
Time to reread the Christmas story and become familiar again with Gabriel visiting Mary, of Elizabeth becoming pregnant well past her childbearing years, of Zechariah being silenced because of his lack of faith, of Jesus being born in a stable manger, of the choir of angels singing to shepherds in the fields, of visitors bringing gifts from the East, of the dreams of Joseph, and of Mary pondering all these things in her heart. Wow! What a story! It is Advent. Time to anticipate and prepare for Emmanuel, “God with us.”
As Christmas approaches, we yearn to experience again the excitement, the joy, and the wonder of the baby born to humble parents, Mary and Joseph. The story of Christmas tells us of God’s dramatic way of coming to be with us, at the time and in the way, we need God the most.
When you read the story, you recognize that courage makes this season possible. The theme of courage comes to the surface over and over again. Over these few short days before Christmas, let’s explore the courage of the persons in the story. This week, through LeaderCast, we looked at the Courage of Mary. Today, let’s look at the courage of Joseph. Remember the story?
Joseph was engaged to Mary. Engagement back then was like a marriage. It was serious business, legal and binding in nature. It could only be broken by going to the courts. So, the families of Joseph and Mary came together, signed the papers, and the engagement began. Only when they became of age, would they marry. So, to say that Joseph was engaged to Mary is significant.
While they are engaged, Joseph discovers that Mary is pregnant. Now, what is he going to do? He is a good man, a righteous man, a man who wants to do the right thing. That’s great, but what is the right thing? How do you know? Here is a businessman in the community and his fiancée is pregnant. What is he to do?
There are several options available to Joseph.
- He could seek out the approval of his friends. Joseph could go to the coffee shop and ask, “What do you think I ought to do?” He could get on the phone, go to work, sit in a Sabbath school class, and tell everyone who will listen, “Did you hear about Mary? What do you think I ought to do?”
Could you blame him for seeking approval? We elect people to public office and remove people from positions based upon their approval ratings. What do the polls say? Joseph could have sought out the approval of his friends.
Making it About Himself
- He could make it about himself. Joseph could tell his side of the story and expose Mary for being unfaithful. He could disgrace her and humiliate her. “Did you hear about Mary? Can you believe what she did to me? She seemed like such a nice girl.”
In fact, Matthew tells us that, “Joseph, her husband was a righteous man. Because he didn’t want to humiliate her, he decided to call off their engagement quietly.” He didn’t want to humiliate her. But, quietly calling off the engagement could also mean he was saving himself from being embarrassed.
- He could do what the Bible says to do. You can’t go wrong by following the Bible, because the Bible makes very clear.
You can quote the Bible before killing a person to justify the killing. “An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.” Men, you can quote the Bible before divorcing your wife, “If a man finds something displeasing in his wife, let him give her a divorce and send her out of the house.” It’s in the Bible. Women, do you know what the Bible says? “Let the women keep their heads covered and their mouths shut.” Joseph could do just what the Bible says, “She is to be taken out and stoned to death in front of the people.” (Deuteronomy 22)
The Above are Not Viable Options
Now, let me be clear. For me, these are not viable options. I mention them, not only because they were available to Joseph, but because each of them is used when you lack the courage to become vulnerable. You engage in them when you are unclear of your purpose and when you are not looking for God in the midst of your everyday living and relationships.
Respond as a Person of Grace, Goodness, Love
- Joseph could be who God created him to be. He has experienced God’s presence in his life. God’s messenger visited him in a dream. He has been blessed through his study of the scriptures. He has read his Bible through the lens of the character and nature of a God who is loving and kind. So, he says, “I will not harm her, abuse her, expose her, shame her, ridicule her, or demean her value, her dignity, or her worth. I will protect her.”
I am amazed at the courage of Joseph. He is the first person in the New Testament who learned how to read the Bible. He lives into who God created him to be by responding as a person of grace, goodness, and love.
Again, let me be clear. When reading the Bible, you find justification for abusing, humiliating, disgracing, harming, or hurting, especially when it makes you feel better about yourself, you are absolutely wrong. That is not courage. It’s manipulation.
Reading Through the Lens of Grace
The Bible is to be read in light of the character of God. It is to be read through the lens of the grace, the goodness, and the love of God when you are deciding how you will respond to the people around you.
So, what does Joseph do? He becomes vulnerable. He steps out in courage and listens to God’s messenger. In a dream, God says, “Go ahead and marry her. I want you to take care of her. I have chosen you to raise her boy.” God says, “Joseph, I want you to raise the baby. You feed the baby. Joseph, care for the mother. You care for the baby.” He becomes who God intends for him to be.
Every Christmas, I marvel at how this story hits the world with the force of a hint. We want God to be God, but God wants to be a human baby in a manger. We want God to be strong so that we can be weak, but God wants to be weak so that we can be strong.
God, in Jesus, came to earth, not to overpower, but to empower. William Sloan Coffin wrote, “He (Christ) came to provide maximum support but minimum protection. It is precisely his support that should help you stop sheltering yourself between the covers of the Bible…”
So, here is what I hope you will do this Advent Season:
- Read the Advent/Christmas Story – Every day read part of the story.
- Download the Advent Bible Reading Guide
- Become familiar with each character. Put yourself in the story.
- After reading the story or stories, ask God to help you identify those characters in your everyday life, work, and play.
- Reflect upon the story.
- Throughout the day or at the end of the day, ask yourself:
- Where do I see God in the story? Where do I see God in my life? Do you see God in my family, my work, and/or in my community?
- Where did the story become real for me today? Make a note to share your reflection with someone you trust, then share it.
- Throughout the day or at the end of the day, ask yourself:
- Respond in the following ways:
- Become vulnerable. Let God’s Word become flesh in you. What is one thing you will do today or tomorrow that will reflect the nature of God’s grace, goodness, and love?
- Be courageous. Express your gratitude by specifically reaching out in some form of kindness, care, or compassion. What one thing will you do to be who God created you to be?
The Courage of Joseph
It is Advent. The baby is not born yet; Mary is not even in labor, but it is already Christmas because of the vulnerability and the courage of Joseph. Because Joseph decided to be who God created him to be, I know that when Jesus is born, the man who will teach him, raise him, care for him, show him how to be a carpenter, take him to the synagogue, and teach him his Bible, is a good man. He is a man of God’s grace, goodness, and love.
When you have somebody with that kind of courage, it is already Christmas.
If God can find someone in every family, in every community, in every church who says, “I will do what is right,” it is Christmas.
What is right?
To read the Scripture and to read the human condition in the light of the love, grace, and kindness of God. As long as there is one person in every situation, it will be Christmas. The question is whether or not you have the heart to be that person.
It is the first week of Advent. Do you have the courage to be who God created you to be?
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